the gossip in the world of madison

i wasn't going to go into details but, i'll summarize the ditching story.

but first you must know, a few of my dating rules include that the male prospect...
be a christian
not smoke(words can't describe how avidly against it i am, it also makes me sick)
not drink(excessively, or underaged)
not dip/chew(thats just disgusting)
not be in a band(preferrably have no musical talent at all)
must be on same intelligence level or above mine
education is a must(high school degree minimum)

rules number 2, 5, and 6 were broken intensely by prospect # 1, 7 was questionable

but i gave him a chance because he was nice, seemed innocent and unable to hurt me, and he has an industrial like mine
thus the first date was set

date 1 friday night-exorcism of emily rose

Friday
4:30-phone call from P-1 saying he didn't have enough money to see a movie but we could still hang out at his house, which of course i said was fine with me; he was about to play guitars w/his friend and would call in a "little while"
4:45-i call him back to say that i'll pay for the movie and we can double date w/guy friend 1 and his female friend at the 7:10 showing, but his phone has no service
4:45 to about 6:30- i continue to call his phone and he continues to have no service
6:30- i realize we wouldn't have enough time to meet up make it to the show on time so i give up
6:30- guy friend 1 cancels plans and stays at my house to hang out
8:45- receive call from guy friend 2 saying he's close and wants to talk to me...minutes later, shows up
9 or so- guy friend 1 heads home
few minutes after 11-receive call from P-1 and this is about how the phone call goes(me= bold)
"hey"
"hey"
"me and my buddy kinda got carried away playing geetars, time just slipped by"
"hhmmm"
"are you mad at me?"
"well, i'm definitely not happy. would you be mad if you were in my situation?"
"uuuhh, yeah"
"ok then, this is why i don't date guys in bands"
::sensing a bit of attitude:: "i guess i will talk to you later"
"ok bye"
"bye"

but we're going to learn from this one...